After the long and hot summer day, the weather was getting better in the evening so I decided to go out for a walk around the hilly and green part of the town as it is always comparatively cooler. During the walk, I saw an old man wearing a baseball hat, lost in his thoughts, walking slowly, as if somebody forced him to go out for a walk… perhaps his wife. Behind his hat, I saw an amazing embroidered statement that read, “There is no finish line!” I was really impressed by this statement and decided to save it on my phone and research about it later in the reflection of my life i.e. “Is there a finish line?”
It was the truth behind this statement that made me fall in love with it because we spend all our lives looking and searching for a finish line but after achieving each landmark or milestone, we find something new and more attractive to pursue, to achieve, and accomplish which results in another race and a new quest for a whole new finish line starts i.e. a never ending loop that only ends with death. It is this blind pursuit of wants and desires that forces us to forget or ignore the things that really matter in this life and the next i.e. the things without any attached finish line or glued victory stand, things that cannot be touched but felt, the things that are abstract and intangible, things like soul, love, conscience, ethics, morals, discipline, emotions, feelings, gratitude, happiness, fun, wisdom, patience, friendship, care, loyalty, etc.
As humans, we were designed and created to be eternal beings, hence soul was put in each one of us (except gingers 😛 j/k) because a body can die, but not the soul. Hence what really defines us is not the body but the soul. It is when the material takes over abstract, the body takes over the soul and the never ending pursuit of goals without any finish line takes over our lives, we start to feel unhappy, weak, unsatisfied, lonely, feeble, sad, angry, suicidal, fearful, etc. also known as suffering of soul.
So what really triggers us to forget the things that really matter and pushes us towards the never ending pursuit of happiness through finish lines and victory stands? The answer to this question is very simple i.e. A Single Glance…, It all starts with a single glance! The human soul is temptress and loves to look at beautiful forms, shapes, faces, etc. and our eyes are the guides of our heart, where the soul lives. The heart commands its guide (eyes) to go and look what is out there and explore, eyes obey and start sending back the images and messages of new and beautiful shapes and forms. These images and messages trigger our hearts to fall in love with the projections of those images, which then gives birth to desire or lust. The desire then leads to perpetual state of loss and anguish because not everything is for sale, not everything is achievable, and not everyone will love us back. This results in the dependence on the object/person and something that started with just a gaze or glance becomes a leech attached to the heart, clinging, melting, dissolving and eating away the body from outside and the soul from the inside. The love or lust eventually takes control of the body, mind and the soul and this is when boundaries, morals, and ethics lose their meanings and total obedience or worship is enjoyed by something material and mortal.
Hence the heart begins to worship something that it was not created to worship and the only thing to blame for all this mess and destruction is a single glance. After this state, the heart becomes powerless and is bound in chains of unstable and uncertain attachment, whereas before it used to be the master of everything. Now the heart cannot complain either, because it was the heart that ordered the eyes to the and look for new excitement in the first place. Waris Shah, a Punjabi poet talk about this state of a person as follows:
Ranjha ranjha kardi wey main, Aape ranjha hoyee
Ranjha ranjha saddo ni mainu, Heer na aakho koi
I have chanted Ranjha’s(Hero) name so much that I have become Ranjha myself
Call me Ranjha everyone, and Don’t call me Heer anymore
Heer (the heroin) says that I miss my love so much that I think about him all the time and his name is always on my tongue. I have chanted his name (Ranjha) so much that I have turned into Ranjha myself so now everyone should call her Ranjha instead of Heer.
All of us experience this battle between heart and soul almost everyday. For example attraction to the opposite sex is one of the examples, where a man (Edward VIII) decided to give up his kingdom and power for a woman. Or another man who decides to change the religion of his nation by creating a new church i.e. the church of England and all this is done to be with a women, etc. Same is true for money, gold and silver for which people cheat, bribe, kill, etc.
Hence the questions one should ask are: Is there a finish line, what exactly is true love, who deserves my love, and finally, who or what is my God or gods? is it desire, lust, power, money, man, woman, etc. or my heart is still in my control and is not corrupted and controlled by finish lines, gold, power, etc. also known as false gods. Everything I have written above, Iqbal said it in this beautiful verse:
Baraheemi Nazar Paida Magar Mushkil Se Hoti Hai
Hawas Chup Chup Ke Seenon Mein Bana Leti Hai Tasweerain
But it is difficult to gain the insight of Abraham (A.S.) because
Desire insidiously and deceptively paints pictures of false gods in our hearts.